Sexual Abuse - Obscene Gestures and Touches are Devastating to a Child

Child sexual abuse has been reported up to 80,000 times a year, but the number of unreported instances is far greater, because the children are afraid to tell anyone what has happened, and the legal procedure for validating an episode is difficult. The problem should be identified, the abuse stopped, and the child should receive professional help. The long-term emotional and psychological damage of sexual abuse can be devastating to the child.

Child sexual abuse can take place within the family, by a parent, step-parent, sibling or other relative; or outside the home, for example, by a friend, neighbor, child care person, teacher, or stranger. When sexual abuse has occurred, a child can develop a variety of distressing feelings, thoughts and behaviors.

Often there are no obvious physical signs of child sexual abuse. Some signs can only be detected on physical exam by a physician.

Sexually abused children may develop the following:

* unusual interest in or avoidance of all things of a sexual nature * sleep problems or nightmares * depression or withdrawal from friends or family * seductiveness * statements that their bodies are dirty or damaged, or fear that there is something wrong with them in the genital area * refusal to go to school * delinquency/conduct problems * secretiveness * aspects of sexual molestation in drawings, games, fantasies * unusual aggressiveness, or

* suicidal behavior

Parents can prevent or lessen the chance of sexual abuse by:

* Telling children that “if someone tries to touch your body and do things that make you feel funny, say NO to that person and tell me right away” * Teaching children that respect does not mean blind obedience to adults and to authority, for example, don’t tell children to, “Always do everything the teacher or baby-sitter tells you to do”

* Encouraging professional prevention programs in the local school system

Sexually abused children and their families need immediate professional evaluation and treatment.